I knew it had been awhile since I last posted, but whoa. . . time flies. Sorry about keeping everyone out of the loop the past couple of months. I’ll try my best to keep it short: maybe just a chapter in a book instead of a whole book. As I try to think back over the months, a few things may have happened in July and I wrote them in June. . . forgive me if I get the events in the wrong months.
The month of April as I mentioned before is a crazy month. Mom and Dad both celebrated their 61st birthdays. (Since I’m writing this, I can say how old they are. . .) For the open house birthday celebration, I gathered old photos that people may not be familiar with. It created quite the conversation piece. And my favorite “back in the day” photo of my dad I found is right here. Well, maybe there’s more than one. . .
Back to the month’s occurrences. . . April showers are supposed to bring May flowers. But. . . if I remember right, May brought more and more showers. Somehow with all the rain, Dad planted about 16 hostas and 8 spireas in their yard. Some of the hostas even got planted twice- he had to move several of them because they were getting too much sun. During this time, he kept up with this every other week treatment. The doctors decided to give Dad a break for a little bit and decreased his treatment. (He went from getting two chemo drugs to one.) His fanny pack treatment, that the nurses affectionately call FU, was his only treatment. They would go to the hospital, Dad got rehydrated with saline solution and extra goodies, then hooked up to his fanny pack that would drip this treatment for 48 hours. Luckily, they got to go home with this treatment. And then Mom would take care of the rest at home when his treatment had finished. Supposedly this was supposed to be easier on Dad as there wasn’t as much medication pumping into him. In theory this makes sense, but from the outside, I’m not sure it was easier. It was just different. The side effects still existed. . . just different side effects.
Mom and Dad continued their yearly habit of buying season tickets to the Muny. The Muny shows start in June and go until August- a new musical every week. So far, Legally Blonde seems to be the favorite at the moment. Somewhat surprises me that Dad was most impressed by that one, but hey, why not? I think they only missed one because of all the heat advisories. I remember calling and saying, “Um, you aren’t planning on going tonight, are you?” My mom would pause and I just knew that the response was going to be a good one. “Well, your dad is getting ready to go now.” The heat just didn’t bother him. . . the heat and mom was another story though. His drug regime changed a little- the doctors added a small dose opium. I don’t pretend to remember what drugs he’s on and what does what. With that said, I believe the opium helps with him gaining weight- which he gained 10 pounds in a month! We try not to dwell on numbers, but that was a serious accomplishment. Finally, he is eating more than I am again!
The hot weather in July didn’t stop Dad one bit. In fact, I know he was comfortable mowing grass in long sleeves and jeans. I went over to their house one day after work to find Mom and Denny blowing bubbles, completely sweaty with red faces, and Dad sitting in a lawn chair in jeans, a long sleeved shirt, and a hat, not at all bothered by the heat. Denny and Mom were getting ready to go inside while Dad was just taking a break from the lawn work. I think it’s crazy that the intense heat never bothered him! In the beginning of July, Denny turned four! My little nephew is growing into a little boy- well maybe just a boy. But don’t worry, he hasn’t outgrown his blond curly hair! Another event in July: Kevin and I celebrated our fifth anniversary. I thought I’d share a few of my favorite photos of my dad (that remind me of the day) from our wedding. Hope you enjoy!
And to catch up with August, his treatment changed back to the previous medication at the hospital and the fanny pack at home. He just can’t get rid of the FU treatment. (It’s just funny to hear my mom say ‘your dad’s getting the FU today.’) They added the additional treatment back because slight changes from the scan, however, I was told it’s nothing significant. And the last update: my parents found out that another grandson is in order. (Kevin and I are expecting a little guy in December.) Well, they just found out our baby was a boy a couple weeks ago- they knew months ago that another grandbaby was in store. I just made you read to the bottom to find out. Sneaky, huh?
Thanks for all the continued support, prayers, phone calls, and cards. As always, they are much appreciated.
jbg.